Many of today's young students have not had the personal relationship that most previous generations took for granted in the home or even in many cases at their schools. Most having been brought up in homes where both parents have to work outside the home or single parent situations that required most of their time was spent at child care facilities or home alone, they didn't get the personal attention and guidance that would be provided by a parent or family member. I feel that, because of that, it becomes more difficult for many of them to trust and connect with other people particularly those in a position of authority who is trying to convince them to take a different path than the one they have developed on their own. It takes time and effort to prove you are sincere and truly want the best for them. Sadly for some we just don't have enough time as it is more difficult to reach some than others. Show empathy not sympathy and show the big picture while laying out the details and the next small step towards a goal that is reachable. The important thing is, they have to know you are truly on their side.
