Hi Victoria:
I think we have some control over our behavior, but it is such a mixture of past experiences, education and training, attitudes and preferences - we have a persona that we can perfect but the foundation is there to stay. And that's not a bad thing at all. It's a reality we all have our ways, strngths and areas we could improve upon. Being open to adjusting or modifying ourselves is one of the most valuate attributes a teacher can possess.
Regards, Barry
