Paul, This was an interesting comment. In truth, we are all unique versions of ourselves, not another quite like us. And with that comes the need to understand deeply, internally, where we are awesome, and where a weaker side of us hides. The hidden part is ripe for cultivation and is often a lifelong, continuous process towards improvement, if we are willing to be open to discovering it, recognizing it when it is found, and be willing to work towards self improvement. Barry Westling