Do you have trouble getting your kids to buckle down when there is work to be done? Today, I'll give you a few tips on how to help your children learn to enjoy work.

Not long ago, I was listening to a friend of mine talk about how hard it was to get his kids to do their chores around the house. I gave him a few tips that helped, so I thought I'd share them with you today.

First, and maybe most important, set a good example yourself. Young people learn how to approach work by watching the adults around them. If you are constantly complaining about the work you have to do, don't be surprised if they follow in your footsteps.

Next, teach them that work brings material rewards. Instead of giving them an allowance, or in addition to a base amount that remains stable, set up specific daily and weekly jobs and a fair pay system, with small raises for improved performance.

Even very young children can be helpful and they love earning money this way. And remember, avoid punishing a child with special household tasks. This is an almost guaranteed way to create a negative attitude toward work.

Finally, praise even imperfect efforts before you point out any need for improvement.

If you remember the rule that says give three pats on the back for every single criticism, you'll be helping your kids see work not only as a way to earn money but also as a way to feel good about themselves and their accomplishments.