Thanks so much for your post Victoria. Can you clarify something for me? I agree with your comments and feel we are on the same page. The sentence where you have "Never talk to them", did you want to enter never to talk down to them? I can see where there could be several interpretations here so I want to make sure I am making the correct assumption and fully understand your point.
Thanks for any clarification you can provide.
Kindest regards,
James Jackson