Hi Tina,
What a thoughtful response. You bring up an interesting point about work and household responsibilities. Some people deal with work and household responsibilities differently. For example, you seem to be relying on immediacy to accomplish tasks at home but seem to have a more balanced approach when accomplishing tasks at work. You might find that creating a to-do list that includes both work and household responsibilities can help. With this type of list, it might be easier for you to prioritize tasks because you will be able to see the whole picture. This type of list might also help you feel more in control of the tasks that you wish to accomplish across the board. The feeling of being in control may reduce the stress that you are experiencing.