Based on my understanding, To be a effective listener means: 1. Listen to students what they are thinking. 2. Understand what they want to tell us. 3. Think about what we can answer and what we should suggest them and help them for better career development. 4. Be patient and be a good listener if they don't agree our suggestion, think about why they don't agree and accept it, then try best to give better solution.

Understanding is the basic of communication. Based on understanding and communication, students will be connected and build up mutual trust between us and students.

Empower students and guide them to learn the knowledge. Open mind to students, understand empathy sympathy show right body language, open mind to listen to students

talk with a list. behave properly by using body language. adapt communication and reflect carefully be smart and structure the communication