As an instructor I sometimes have to play the role of a therapist. Observe, Listen to their concerns and then reafirm my position. I am here to help you.

The "use it wisely" method seems to be what i've been looking for. I plan to use this with the next class to shift the dynamic and give equal amount of shine for each student. Normally we find out who the "center of the stage student" is during the ice breaking stage. This will be a useful tool of engagement.

As in my experience as an instructor my main focus at the start of the course is to allow my students to open up. By doing so they become more receptive on the information they learn and at the same time build a mutual trust between the instructor and student. I do struggle with deadlines so I plan to be a little more clear on my expectations.